why is love so difficult

love is just a word used to describe a feeling, a decision, a promise, a joy, an undying and enternal care for someone. there's no such thing as love at first sight, that is physical attraction, lust or infacuation, which is also as well a strong feeling. with love the feeling comes and goes and sometimes you wont feel that way at all but it doesnt matter because this person has made you into who you are, a better person and changed your life in the most amazing ways. theyre human and have faults and flaws and if you love someone you love their flaws all of them, sometimes things about them may bug you but with love it will pass, you have to stay and work your hardest when you want to give up, give up all selfishness and try you absolute hardest to make this persons life better than your own.. its to care about someone more than yourself, more then you ever thought you could and to feel guilty when being selfish, to always forgive and never forget the memories and good times they;ve had and to be the one person who never left their side, to fall in love is better then they make it in the movies, you cant feel it tell you felt it and once you felt it you will never ever be the same.